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In expressing emotions, sentiments, and reactions

So I came up across the blog of this girl. I’ve learned from a friend that she and her long time boyfriend broke up for some unknown reason and she was conveying her thoughts about it in her blog. When I’ve read her post, I kind of pitied her in the situation she’s going through right now. You can really tell that she’s in pain if you got to read her blog.

But my reaction could be different from others. Some might judge her for doing such. Posting stuffs about or relating to her break up might make other people say that she’s doing it so people could pity her. Or others might say, she’s doing it to make the guy appear awful to others. Judgments like these. Some don’t really know what she’s going through or what she really feels right now so we shouldn’t judge her like this. ‘Cause it maybe she’s doing it to let her feelings out so that she could somehow feel better. Why? Is it not okay to express your emotions sometimes? That’s why there’s a blog, or a journal, or a diary. Maybe this is her way of letting unwanted sentiments out that’s why she’s blogging about it. You know, it could not be in your way of handling these things but for her, it is. Some can easily judge her because they haven’t been in her situation. They don’t know what she feels. They will never understand her. Try putting yourself in her shoes. It’s hard, isn’t it? I mean, it’s really hard imagining you are her because you haven’t really been there in her current state. Hehe. But what I am really trying to say is, you’ll just understand these things if you experience it yourself. So don’t judge. Malay mo mangyari rin sayo yun diba? Di natin alam. That’s the time na masasabi mo, “Ah. Ganun pala yun. Dati inaano-ano ko sha. Tas tingnan mo, nangyari din sakin. Ganun pala yun. Now I understand.” See? That’s it. I’ve heard this a lot from many people, even from myself. I know we’re not perfect. There will always be times that we can’t help but judge other people but at least, let’s try to minimize it. Lalo na pag yun nga, we don’t know the story behind. Hehe. La lang. Just expressing my emotions, sentiments, and reactions. Haha. Oh, baka ma-judge ako dito ha? LOL.